Groups Discussion Guide
The Promise
From John 14, Pastor Jay shows that the Holy Spirit is the Promise of the Father — the Helper Jesus sent so we would never live the Christian life alone.
Start here
What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever tried to build, assemble, or fix without any instructions or help?
Read the scripture
Read John 14:15–18 out loud together before you start.
What does it say?
- In John 14:16, what does Jesus say He will do, and what will the Father give? How long does Jesus say the Helper will stay?
- In John 14:17–18, where does Jesus say the Spirit of truth dwells, and what does He promise He will not do?
What does it mean?
- Pastor Jay said the problem was never God’s standard but “the gap between the standard and our ability to fill the gap.” How does God putting His Spirit within us answer that gap?
- Jesus told His disciples it was to their advantage that He go away (John 16:7). Why could the Spirit living in us be better than Jesus walking beside us?
- Pastor Jay explained why the cross, the resurrection, and the ascension had to come before the Spirit was poured out. What does it mean that the Spirit in you is proof Jesus reached His destination?
What do we do with it?
- Where are you trying to forgive, love, stay faithful, or tell the truth in your own strength right now? What would it look like to depend on the Helper there this week?
- Have you ever felt like an orphan — on your own in your faith? How does Jesus’ promise, “I will come to you,” speak to that?
- Pastor Jay said, “The only changed life is a surrendered life,” and that our part is simply to ask. What will you ask the Father for this week?
Pray
Father, thank You for Your promise and that You have not left us on our own. Pour out a fresh filling of Your Spirit, lead us and teach us, and help us live surrendered to You. Amen.
Dwelling House Church · Watch the message at dwellinghousechurch.com/messages/another-helper-the-promise/